A Goodbye That Sounds Like Them.
Some days in a life ask for more than a standard service. They ask for words chosen carefully. Time taken properly. A ceremony shaped around the person at the heart of it, and around the people gathering to remember them.
That's the work I do here.
I write funeral ceremonies, memorial services, end-of-life ceremonies and celebrations of life for families across Cyprus. Whatever your faith, or none. Whatever your traditions, or none at all. I'll meet you where you are, and stay there for as long as you need.
The Ceremonies I Lead
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Funeral Ceremonies
A full funeral service held in English at a graveside, place of worship or alternative venue. Written from your family's memories, conducted with warmth and steadiness.
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Memorial Ceremonies
For families who held a private funeral and now want to gather a wider circle. Or for families holding a service in Cyprus when a loved one has been laid to rest elsewhere.
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Celebrations of Life
For families who don't want a traditional funeral at all. Music, photographs, stories, the meal afterwards. Held at a venue, beach, garden or family home. Sad in the right places, lifted in the right places.
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End-of-Life Ceremonies
Conducted before someone has passed, while they can still be part of the gathering. A chance to say things that need saying, while there's still time to hear them.
How a Celebrant-Led Ceremony Is Different
A celebrant-led ceremony isn't tied to a religion, a fixed format or a set length. We can include hymns, prayers, scripture and traditions if they matter to your family. We can leave them out entirely if they don't. We can blend faiths if your family is mixed.
Families don't have to use whoever the funeral director suggests. You can choose your own celebrant, and many families do. I'll happily work alongside any funeral director, venue or place of worship in Cyprus.
The ceremony I write will be the only one of its kind, because the person it honours was the only one of theirs.
What's Included
When you ask me to lead a ceremony, here's what comes with it:
- An initial conversation, in person, by phone or by video
- A family questionnaire, used as gently as it sounds
- A bespoke ceremony script, written from scratch
- All drafts and revisions, with no rush
- One symbolic element or ritual if you'd like one
- Liaising with your funeral director, venue or place of worship
- Officiating the ceremony on the day
- A printed copy of the final ceremony for your family
Investment
Funeral and memorial ceremonies start from a similar starting point to my wedding work, with the final fee confirmed once we've talked through what your family needs. Travel beyond 20 miles of Armou is quoted separately as a small additional cost. Cost is the last thing a grieving family should have to navigate alone, so we'll talk it through openly and without pressure on our first call.
Ritual Moments That Suit a Goodbye.
A ritual moment can give people something to do in a service, which often helps when words alone feel like too much. A few I've worked with:
- A candle-lighting, with one flame for each part of the family
- A memory ribbon, tied by guests to a tree, branch or frame
- An olive branch ritual, fitting for Cyprus, with each guest adding a sprig to a shared
vessel
- A reading passed between several voices, so no one carries it alone
- A held moment of music, no words at all
If your family has a tradition of its own, religious or cultural, we'll honour it.
How We'll Work Together
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The First Call
You reach out, by phone, WhatsApp or email. We talk. Often more than once. There's no pressure to decide anything straight away.
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Gathering the Story
I'll ask for memories, photographs, music, readings, anything the family wants included. Many people find this part comforting. It's permission to talk about the person, properly.
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Writing the Ceremony
I write the script and share it with whoever in the family you'd like. We change anything that doesn't feel right. As many drafts as it takes.
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The Day Itself
I arrive early, coordinate with the venue, welcome mourners, and lead the ceremony with the warmth and steadiness it needs. If a family member wants to speak, I'll support them. If no one feels able to, I'll carry the words on your behalf.
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Afterwards
I send the final script home with you. I stay reachable. Some families ask me back later for a memorial or an anniversary ceremony. Whatever you need, I'm here.
Why Families ChooseMe.
I spent a long career in HR, latterly leading diversity and inclusion for a large organisation. Much of that work was about being present for people through difficult moments, with calm, care and complete respect for who they are.
The ceremony work I do now draws on the same listening. I won't rush you. I won't push a format on you. I will honour the person we're remembering with every word I write.
Questions Families Often Ask.
Can we choose our own celebrant?
Yes. Even if a funeral director has suggested someone, you're free to ask for the person you'd like. I'll work alongside any funeral director in Cyprus.
Can we include religious elements?
Absolutely. We can include any prayers, hymns, readings or traditions you'd like, and leave out anything you don't.
How quickly can you put a ceremony together?
I do my best to be available at short notice. A week is ideal. Less is workable.
Can different family members speak?
Yes, and I'll support anyone who'd like to. If no one feels able to speak on the day, I'll carry the words on your behalf.
Where can the ceremony be held?
Graveside services, places of worship, hotels, gardens, beaches, family homes. Travel within 20 miles of Armou is included; further afield is quoted separately.
Words From Families
Real moments, real ceremonies, real funerals.
A short, beautiful quote from one of Cathy’s couples will live here, telling future couples exactly what it felt like to work with her.
A second testimonial from a different couple, in a different location across Cyprus, will sit here when ready.
When You're Ready.
There's no pressure and no rush. When you'd like to talk, I'll be here, and I'll give the conversation the time it needs.
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